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. Stalking by proxy is when one person convinces other people to torment and traumatize another person. Sometimes the insults are wrapped in a cloak of concern, "Poor you, you're always so confused". . . Stonewalling is. Above average intelligence. Abuse by proxy – using third parties to torment a victim. Sometimes, it starts out with constant emails, texts or social media messages that say pretty much, “I miss you!. To try and engage you, the narcissist will appear to “own up” to their mistakes and will feign humility and remorse in an attempt to pull at your heartstrings. How you do this depends on what they are doing to you.